We all have that aha moment when we look into the mirror and don’t recognize the person staring back at us. My moment of truth was at the hairdresser when I was in my late forties. I remember thinking, “Oh, so this is how it’s going to be.” Now almost two decades later, I am still wondering about what’s to come. I still feel very energetic and youthful and don’t want to be counted out because of my chronological age. I believe that developing your style (and being open to updating it) is the secret to looking good and combating the feeling of “not counting”. Remember, like anything worth while, maintaining your style takes energy and commitment.